“There's not one person on the planet, even my greatest teachers, with whom I agree on every subject. I conclude that perfect accord is impossible, and that's a good thing.” Rob Brezsny

A good reason to cultivate good conflict management skills . . .

“I never lose. I either win or learn.” Nelson Mandela

For every challenging experience, there are these possibilities:

“You do not have to be good. You do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting. You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves. Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine. Meanwhile the world goes on. Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain are moving across the landscapes, over the prairies and the deep trees, the mountains and the rivers. Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air, are heading home again. Whoever you are, no matter how lonely, the world offers itself to your imagination, calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting -- over and over announcing your place in the family of things.”

It’s been a few weeks since Mary Oliver died — I’ve been reading some of her poems, thinking about how so many of her words came from the grace and beauty of the natural world. We lost Mary, but we still have those words in a world desperate for such qualities . . . .